A dating coach
If certain things are worth pointing out, they do so. “It helps them see their blind spots. From there, we give suggestions or coach them,” says Lim.
Such tweaks, sometimes, are crucial for success. “Most single people say they are single because they haven’t met the right one. Once they have, everything will be perfect. But having been in this industry for a long time, I realise that the people who succeed are those with the right mindset and skill set,” Lim says.
“When we put someone suitable in front of these people, they can connect and are attracted. If we put someone like that https://besthookupwebsites.org/tr/coffee-meets-bagel-inceleme/ in front of a person without a good mindset or skill set, it doesn’t go anywhere.”
It could also be useful to eliminate the bad habits that people pick up from online dating. A common criticism of the online dating model is that it has created an illusion of choice, whereby people cannot commit to a person because they think there are many other better options out there.
“I call it elevator dating, where dates have become a commodity. We have clients like that. We give them a match that they are happy about, and then they ask us to find them another match who is just like that, but they add another criterion,” Lim says. And after that, the client asks for yet another person, with another added criterion.
“It’s a reality. We’re trying to slow things down. When people come to us, we tell them we are not a dating app. Continue reading “How do popular online dating platforms work?”