Dear Anna,
We have recently found, to my shock and dismay, that We fell so in love with a married guy. I/we have never acted I might on it, but well, let’s just say I’m concerned. Please talk me personally away from doing one thing terrible I’ll undoubtedly be sorry for. —Horrible Individual
You are not terrible. You dropped in love, a work that people rarely ever have much say in. Yes, it is with a person that is unavailable, that is regrettable, however you have not done any such thing about this. Therefore first let us put down the whips with that you are self-flagellating.
I would be thrilled to let you know most of the reasoned explanations why getting associated with a married man is typically not a choice that may boldly and joyously carry you forth in to the way of one’s most effective life, but i am pretty confident you know that it is an idea that is bad. The language “surprise,” “dismay,” “terrible” and “regret” were tip-offs.