Someone sending harassing messages? The block button is your friend. Don’t be afraid to use it. It can give you the breathing space that you need to clear your head and get away from the stress, particularly if just asking them to stop did not work prior.
Friend Collecting
Some people do it, some people don’t. I’ve got a high number of friends because most are either people I’ve met offline or, the majority, are photographers, models, designs or fans of my modelling. Since the follow feature was enabled, you can just follow someone without needing to send a friend request. This is ideal if you still want there to be some degree of separation between the wider public and friend’s only, but you still want people to be notified of when you upload things. This is particularly useful as a model. The only downside is that I can’t go back and edit everyone who was ‘grandfathered’ before this system was introduced.
Friend collecting is effectively just firing off friend request’s just to get the numbers higher. Which… given the follow feature, isn’t as necessary to maintain an audience any more.
Profile link: SomeoneNot-On-FL This is a profile set up for those who are involved with people that are not on Fetlife. It has also been suggested that for an s-type completely new to kink, it might be pertinent to add it and have a relationship to stave off at least some of the initial tide of messages until your feet are on the ground a little more securely. Continue reading “Someone not listening to you trying to close or end a conversation?”