The ISTJ knows they are in love because it is a decision they have come upon after much thought and consideration. They are not prone to the ‘lightning bolt from heaven’ or of someone sweeping them off their feet. When they weighed all of the pros and cons, they will decide if the potential partner is someone they love.
How an ISTJ Shows Love
Because they crave stability and security in relationships, they will offer these things to those they love. This often appears via performing daily tasks and providing for those they love. Their presence is also a present of sorts because being alone does not hold negative connotations. They may push beyond their comfort zone to attend social events or to express deeply felt (but not always visible) emotions to their significant other.
Love Language
Because ISTJs are realistic and practical, the best way to reach them is through words of affirmation. While they are not known for putting their emotions into words, they can blossom upon hearing their actions have meaning to those they love.
Does an ISTJ Fall in Love Easily
They fall in love just as they do most things, with thought, logic, and deliberation about the subject at hand. If interested in a person as a potential romantic partner, they will devote time and effort to learning all they can before deciding if pursuing a relationship is worth the time and effort.
How to Make an ISTJ Fall in Love
While no one can ‘make’ another person fall in love, there are some behaviors this personality finds more attractive than others