Oral sex is great in the 69 sex position because it’s an opportunity for your clitoris to get the attention and praise it deserves. But there are so many other feel-good treasures between your legs. The labia and mons pubis can experience pleasure with some pressure and stimulation, according to Finn.
So, if you’re giving oral to someone with a vulva she says, “It’s okay if your nose is pressed to their bits – that pressure will probably feel good.” She also recommends “using broader, less pinpointed strokes on the lips like you’re licking an ice cream cone to start before focusing in on the clit.”
Likewise, if your partner has a penis, “You don’t have to go right for the penis, you can also fondle or lick the perineum, balls, and inner thigh,” says Finn. (See More: 8 Male Erogenous Zones You’re Probably Ignoring During Sex).
3. Get handsy.
In the classic 69 sex position the partner on top may need both arms to support their body, but if your hands are available use them. Not only will this give you a breather (literally), it’ll also feel good. “Try caressing their inner thigh, their butts, their hips…wherever you know they like to be teased,” suggests Finn. Continue reading “Check out this guide to anal sex”