Can you see how invested she was in the conversation. That’s a sign of excitement and it can be temporarily. However, if it becomes a pattern and the girl double or triple texts you all the time then that’s a very good sign she likes you over text.
2. She complies
I once teased a girl about how her shoes didn’t match with her toe nails’ color. The next day she sent me a photo of her newly polished feet. This was a good way of getting my crush to notice me more.
So, if a girl changes how she does something, or how she says something over text, then it’s a good sign she likes you.
Similarly, if you tease her about something she does or wears, and she likes you, she may show her affection by changing what you didn’t like about her.
A disqualifier is implying to the girl that she doesn’t belong to your company but in a fun way. Like telling a girl, “You’re cool. Unfortunately, I don’t have a thing for short girls.”
I like to use disqualifiers right before asking the girl out because it says that I’m not that needy and makes her invest in the conversation. And if she puts energy into the conversation, she’s less likely to flake when we meet.
That girl asked me what I was doing in Barcelona and told her I’m undercover wanba.com CIA which led into some role-playing about recruiting her.
I asked if she was good with guns and she said “probably.” A typical reply from a guy would be, “Cool, let’s find out over dinner.”
What you should do, however, is take a step away and see if she will come closer (just like stopping midway before a kiss and letting her go for it).
And she went crazy with three texts in less than 30 seconds – even though the first time we matched she left me hanging dry for 5 days. Continue reading “3. She qualifies herself to you (if you push, she pulls)”