Hi there Dr NerdLove,
I’m in chaos. I found myself likely to get married come july 1st until we postponed for COVID; then two months ago my personal fiance confessed to cheat on me. Not like a few times, but most likely twenty times with maybe a dozen various female, from one-night really stands to hookups with a friend of their which i usually distrusted to investing in blowjobs at a remove club, delighted endings and prostitutes, to extra one-night appears and pub create outs, to an acquaintance of his (I got seen him flirt together which feels awful), not only that with a friend of my own several times after the guy moved in beside me!! Ha!! It was mainly in the first three-years of our own connection though earlier in the day in 2010, whilst in pre-marital counseling, he ditched us to hang with many poly friends of buddies and made aside with a woman, though he admitted after.
My personal finally ex duped on and gaslit myself terribly, which fiance understood. At the same time, we knew my personal (ex?) fiance planned to check out sleeping with other anyone and I also did try to have the dialogue on how to allow not harmful to me. Continue reading “My Fiance Cheated on Myself. Now He Desires An Unbarred Connection.”