Been here, and done that. Oops?
If you have ever played sports in center college (that hasn’t?) or tested your fortune in dream soccer (for those who haven’t, you are really missing out), you are most likely acquainted with benching — a.k.a. maintaining somebody on the group whilst not providing them with a reasonable opportunity at bat (or ya understand, ball).
However if you are a new comer to contemporary relationship (my condolences), maybe you aren’t.
Benching in dating strikes a comparable meaning. In a nutshell, a bencher keeps you within their rotation playing the industry (speak about an ideal analogy), no matter whether or otherwise not you are sitting here waiting and longing for a monogamous relationship.
Because even they may pull the slow fade — they haven’t decided to commit to any sort of two-person team though they are clearly interested — if not.
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